The day your child gets married is a moment every mum cherishes. When Jaime's mother, Christine, became ill, both of them feared it wasn't a moment they'd be able to share.
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But through the generosity of donors and the hard work of our care teams, The Dreams Program made a beautiful wedding ceremony - right in the palliative care unit - a reality.
We spoke to Jaime about her special day, and her mother's impact on her life.
Tell us about the day you got married...what happened?
My mum has always wanted to see me married. When she got sick, I was always doubtful that she would ever see it, it hurt a lot to think she wouldn’t be there. But The Dreams Program set up a beautiful ceremony, organised everything on short notice, and even managed to get us some gorgeous flowers.
What made this day so meaningful for you and your family, especially your mum, Christine?
It meant a lot because we were able to share something so special with my mum. And even though it wasn’t a big fancy wedding that she hoped to see, I know she loved it nonetheless.
Can you share some of your favourite memories from the wedding ceremony?
My husband thought of it on a whim to have Fitbits instead of rings and I thought it was brilliant. The celebrant was wonderful too, he put some humour into everything. I think the best part was to have my mum smiling as we finally said, 'I do'.
How did it feel for your mother to be a part of such an important day?
It meant the world to me. And it meant the world to know it was put together so quickly for her to enjoy. To know she got to be there when I walked down the aisle and to know how happy it made her will be one thing I’ll never forget.
Could you share the best marriage advice that your mother gave you?
She always said: Let the little things go. You can’t fight over every little problem that comes along. Don’t sweat the small stuff when you have bigger things to worry about.
How has the bond you shared with your mother impacted your life?
Knowing I had a safe space to go to when I needed it always brought me comfort. She used to call me nicknames and always tried to give me whatever she cooked. I hope to one day be as amazing as she was.