A Mother's love: A story of hope and joy fulfilled through the HammondCare Foundation's Dreams Project

It's always important to celebrate the many forms of love and relationships that bring joy, comfort and meaning in our lives. As well as appreciating the special experiences that bring us closer to the ones we love.

At the HammondCare Foundation, we understand the importance of these experiences, especially for those with dealing with life-limiting illnesses. The Dreams Project, our transformative initiative that brings unique experiences to end-of-life patients and their families, is a testament to this.

Through listening to the hopes and wishes of patients and families, the Dreams Project strives to make impossible moments possible. In Jaime's case, the Dreams Project made a beautiful wedding ceremony a reality, allowing Jaime and her mother to share this special moment together.

We spoke to Jaime and she shared her thoughts on her special day and her mother's impact on her life.

Can you tell us about the special wedding experience that was fulfilled through the HammondCare Foundation Dreams Project?

My mum has always wanted to see me married. When she got sick, I was always doubtful that she would ever see it, it hurt a lot to think she wouldn’t be there. But HammondCare Foundation set up a beautiful ceremony, organised everything on short notice, and even managed to get us some gorgeous flowers.

What made this day so meaningful for you and your family, especially your mother Christine who was able to be a part of it?

It meant a lot because we were able to share something so special with my mum. And even though it wasn’t a big fancy wedding that she hoped to see, I know she loved it nonetheless.

Can you share some of your favourite memories from the wedding ceremony?

My husband thought of it on a whim to have Fitbits instead of rings and I thought it was brilliant. The celebrant was wonderful too, he put some humour into everything. I think the best part was to have my mum smiling as we finally said the “I do’s.”

How did it feel to have your mother Christine be a part of such an important and special day in your life?

It meant the world to me. And it meant the world to know it was put together so quickly for her to enjoy. To know she got to be there when I walked down the aisle and to know how happy it made her will be one thing I’ll never forget.

As Valentine's Day is a day that celebrates all types of love, could you share what the best marriage advice that your mother Christine gave you?

Let the little things go. You can’t fight over every little problem that comes along. Don’t sweat the small stuff when you have bigger things to worry about.

How has the love and bond you shared with your mother Christine impacted your life?

Knowing I had a safe space to go to when I needed always brought me comfort. She used to call me nicknames and always tried to give me whatever she cooked. I hope to one day be as amazing as she was.